tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-201541182011-12-15T10:41:31.151ZArticles published almost dailyCenkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05237878860325552413noreply@blogger.comBlogger31100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20154118.post-1136899367546177042006-01-10T13:19:00.000Z2006-01-10T13:23:39.060ZOnline Dating started with a 'usenet' kind newsgroups to social networking and has become one of the most important part of our personal lives in less than 10 years time. With the growing demand in online dating, thousands of online dating sites were formed. Some sites unbelievably reached millions of members in short periods. With the easiness and forwardness of online dating, millions of singles became couples and got married. But as in all part of our lives, 'cyber-thieves' or nowadays we call them 'scammers' created millions of fake profiles on online dating sites and suckered money from innocent people, looking for love on the internet.<br /><br />So the question is how you can know if the dating site of your choice is reputable and how can you know the person you are getting in touch is a genuine match?:<br /><br />On the huge ocean of Internet, there are hundreds of free dating sites with maybe a dozen of them reputable enough to give them a try. But the biggest problem with trying totally free dating sites is that it just doesn't attracts innocent individuals like you. It attracts scammers who are creating hundreds of fake profiles everyday, looking forward to wrong moves from genuine people. So most of the time, giving hundreds of free dating sites a try is waste of time which may discourage you to find someone genuine online. So if you really intend to find someone to build a relationship, it's better you find a reputable and cheap dating site where you can meet real people.<br /><br />After you decided to go with a dating site of your choice, you must keep in mind some of these simple rules for avoiding ghost profiles:<br /><br /><ul><li>Use a dating site with distance searching with real post codes. That tremendously effects your chances.</> </li><li>Before trying dating sites with millions of members, try cheap but reputable growing sites with hundreds of profiles You will have more chance to meet someone who can reply to you as these profiles will not be overwhelmed with thousands of messages everyday. </li><li>After you sign up with the dating site. Whilst searching for your dream mate, always look into the photos that may be fake, eliminate your options to a smaller pool. </li><li>Read profiles,look for sincere and honest descriptions in the personal ads. </li><li>If you receive a message from a too good to be true beauty especially from overseas with so much interest in you be careful with them. Look into their messages and if any part of their messages, they talk about financial problems or even if they tell you their salary honestly, run away from them as you are 90% approached by a scammer. </li><li>Even if you exchange tens of messages with someone, never send money for plane tickets, visas, etc. as this is 99.9% scamming technique, cyber-thieves using everyday. </li><li>After exchanging a few messages, try chatting online and/or on the phone with your match. </li></ul><p>So these are some clues for finding a genuine match that you can try building a relationship with. Keep these rules in your mind and go with your instincts. Who knows, maybe you'll be the next success story on a decent dating site. </p><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/20154118-113689936754617704?l=datingarticlesonline.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Cenkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05237878860325552413noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20154118.post-1136685227749203302006-01-08T01:50:00.000Z2006-01-08T01:53:47.760ZAbsolutely, yes!!With the help of rapidly growing online community, online dating is becoming a part of our personal lives that you shouldn't miss and at least have tried once in your lifetime for the fun and the benefits of online dating. So why should you bother finding a decent dating site and paying tens of bucks?<br /><ul><li>Expanding your dating circle. It's easy to find fun and attractive people from all around the world for chatting, fun, friendship and maybe a serious relationship.</li><li>Just Singles. There will be thousands of singles waiting for you get in touch with them. It is not like going to a nightclub, trying every other potents and praying for her/him to be single. </li><li>Approaching and being approached easily. If you are the shy type, it must be very nerve-racking to approach other sex but with the advantage anonymity of online dating, approaching, chatting is easier than it used to be. </li><li>Safety. One of the most important advantages of online dating is safety. In online dating, you dont have to reveal your personal details unless you want to. No email address or phone number exchange is required. </li><li>Save Money. How much are you spending, when you go to a bar, pub or a nightclub for a night to find other singles? Tens of pounds or dollars, maybe more. But with the competition in the online dating business, you can easily find very reputable sites offering their services for one digit figures. </li></ul><p>So you decided to give online dating a try, what must you consider before registering for a dating service?:<br /><ul><li>Look for dating site reviews, take recommendations.</li><li>Determine how much you're willing to spend. Dont jump into free dating sites at first as there will be thousands of irrelevant profiles which are inactive or inappropriate. Try a reputable dating site until you know how to take advantages of online dating. </li><li>Make a list of the dating sites you're considering to join and compare. </li></ul><p>You have possibly been using or had used Internet for shopping. Online dating is not so different than online shopping. You're shopping to find the right person in the right place safely and cheap. So dont stuck up in your own social circle, think big. Remember your other half or soulmate could be waiting for you on the other side of the world.<br /><br /><strong>Give them a chance. Give yourself a chance. </strong></p><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/20154118-113668522774920330?l=datingarticlesonline.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Cenkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05237878860325552413noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20154118.post-1135420507859895602005-12-24T10:30:00.000Z2005-12-24T10:35:07.866Z<p>Online dating has started as a last resort of the social misfit, to one of the most active methods to meet people. For those people out there who have busy lives or may be dealing with a lot of shyness issues, you should take a look at online resources as an excellent tool to expand your dating circle.You need to determine your current dating goal before you go any further. What is it that you want from your online interaction with the other sex?<br /><br /><ul><li>Friendship? Someone to talk to?</li><li>Romance? </li><li>A short-term or long-term relationship? </li><li>Casual dating with many boy/girlfriends? </li><li>Marriage? </li></ul><p>After determining your current goals, you must take action accordingly. Your first action should be writing a personal ad to make your profile shine: </p><p><ul><li>Be creative and different to spark the interest of the other sex.</li><li>Never look like you need to be approved in your ad or in your life. </li><li>Start with an appealing romantic imagery and mix in some humor. </li><li>Write your ad poetically and non-specifically. Listing out your hobbies or writing must haves is kind of suicidal in this huge sea of fishes and will only make you lose in the online dating game. </li></ul><p>Unfortunately the game does not end here. Uploading photos of yourself is essential for a successful profile:<br /><br /><ul><li>Your portrait photo(first photo) is the first to be seen in your profile and is the most important, so choose it wisely.</li><li>Do not upload pictures in which you think you look the most good looking but you look the happiest. The warmth of a smile can melt the ice of others hearts. </li><li>Try to find pictures where you participated in interesting activities such as surfing, dancing, playing an instrument… </li></ul><p>Now you are ready for starting enjoying the advantages of online dating but the game is still not over yet. The last and the most important action is sending emails that can make effect:<br /><br /><ul><li>Always include one personal item that tells the potential date that you’ve read her/his profile. Do not just drool on the picture. </li><li>Be funny, creative, different, challenging her/his sensibilities and approachable. </li><li>Remember some profiles are getting hundreds of emails everyday, so this is the area you must sparkle. So always send custom-written letters. Never try the copy-paste approach. </li><li>If he/she replies to you, you’ve already started progress, do not wait too long to take the relationship to the next level to offline dating or somebody else will. </li></ul><p>You must keep in mind that dating is not an easy game and needs hard work, even years of loving relationships need it. Online dating is no different and needs determination and commitment.<br /><br />So the point is: <strong>Online dating will work for you, if you make it work for you. Good things do not come to those who wait, but to those who go and get them. </strong></p><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/20154118-113542050785989560?l=datingarticlesonline.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Cenkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05237878860325552413noreply@blogger.com0